In memory of Laraine Allen

1956 - 2016

So far we have raised

£12,000.60

Laraine was a beautiful woman on both the inside and out. She was great fun, funny, generous, loving, caring and the most brilliant wife to me and mum to Christian and Kirsty. Laraine possessed great integrity and charm and touched so many peoples lives and they all loved her for that, and also her spirit and occasional feistiness.

Laraine was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer in June 2015 and went through chemotherapy, surgery and radiotherapy. In 2016 we went on a family holiday to La Manga in Spain and had a fantastic time and then in July enjoyed our joint 60th birthday party.

In September our daughter Kirsty got married at Hampton Court House and Laraine looked stunning and had such a brilliant time. However a few weeks later having been told in August that the breast cancer had spread to her lungs, Laraine struggled with her health and having fought so bravely over the past 18 months, so very sadly died on 17th November 2016.

We miss her so much, her laughter, her strength, her courage and want to ensure she leaves a legacy so that her struggle and fight against this dreadful disease was not in vain. We hope by setting up this memory fund we can raise money to help with the vital research into less treatable forms of breast cancer. We owe this to Laraine and the many thousands of women who are going through this journey now.
Love from your husband Derek xxxx

Derek Allen Fund holder

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To my beautiful mum, it would have been your 70th birthday today and I’m sure you would have been more beautiful and vibrant than ever.
We miss you so much and it’s hard to believe it’s been 10years, so much has happened but I hope you would be really proud of how we are doing. You made us tough and I’m trying my best to be as good a mum as you, which is a pretty high standard! I hope I’m doing ok.
You certainly have a couple of gorgeous grandkids. Emmy knows her nanny and you will always be part of her life and Alfred will get to know his nanny in time.
Love you so much and miss you everyday.
Love from Kirsty, Matt, Emmy and Alfred xxx

£60.00

31 August 2026

Kirsty Allen

Happy heavenly birthday Laraine. So sorry you're not here to enjoy life with us but you are always in our hearts and minds and have left a wonderful legacy with Christian, Kirsty, Emmy and now Alfred. Miss you always and forever ❤️ xxx

£100.00

31 August 2026

Derek Allen

Happy Birthday to Laraine. Though we never met her, we can really feel her presence within the family. Sending all our love, Dan & Sarah Todd. xx

£25.00

31 August 2026

Dan & Sarah

Happy heavenly Mother's day Laraine 💖 You were an amazing mum and you will always be part of our growing family. Your strength, humour and love was amazing and we miss you so much. Little Emmy knows all about you and Kirsty has kept your star burning bright. The old holiday photo shows how happy we were as a family together ❤️

£100.00

15 March 2026

Derek Allen

To My Beautiful Mum and Nanny

You loved Christmas so much and made it so special for us as a family, I miss those times with you. I’m playing your favourite songs and thinking of you now and always.
I talk to Emmy about you and she knows who her nanny is and says you are beautiful! She’s right - the most beautiful person inside and out.
Merry Christmas.
Love you always.
Kirsty and Emmy xxx

£25.00

24 December 2025

Kirsty and Emmy

Another Christmas without you Laraine. We miss you so much and know how much you loved Christmas with the kids and family and you would have loved to see little Emmy granddaughter opening her presents with you.
We feel your spirit and warmth especially at this time of year and you are forever in our hearts. Love you always and we're so proud of your legacy - we are what we are because of you ❤️ xxx

£50.00

24 December 2025

Derek Allen

It's 9 years ago this month that you left us Laraine. I think of you every day. There were so many more things we wanted to experience together. I miss your voice, your laugh, your funny little ways, your touch, your resilience and your love for us all. Sometimes I get both sad and angry on what you have missed but I still have those great memories of the amazing things we did together as a family with Christian and Kirsty and then the two of us. From just doing the simple things like walking and chatting and laughing to the incredible travelling we did together far and wide. They say grief breaks your heart and eventually heals but it always leaves scars. You are Laraine forever in my heart of scars xxx

£50.00

20 November 2025

Derek Allen Fund Holder

Happy heavenly birthday Laraine. We miss you everyday but especially today and hearing your voice. Emmy would have loved her nanny. You would be so proud of her, Christian and Kirsty. Love this photo of you with your green fingers - love you always Derek ❤️ xxx

£100.00

4 September 2025

Derek Allen

Just a little note to you Laraine - to let you know you on mother's day how missed you are and what an amazing and beautiful mum and wife you were to us and nanny you would have been to Emmy who is your incredible legacy. I had a walk to our little church in Hemley and then down towards the river. The scenery was stunning and we shared this often together. Always in our thoughts and memories cherished. Love you lots - Derek, Christian and Kirsty ❤️ xxx

£100.00

3 April 2025

Derek Allen